I miss and treasure my dearest xiao hui

From 18 Jul till now, xiao hui has been away with her parents for 10 days. Missing her, so I did sms and call her everyday. Good to know they are enjoying themselves and nothing bad or hard happened to them. Yesterday I called dear again, and I was very happy to receive a complaint from her -- she said I was not sending her smses every morning and night as before. I was happy hearing that, knowing she loves my greetings and words of love. Yes I like this kind of complaints, dear you can always ask more from me, and I will always give you more than you want, for I know you treasure them.

Though I don't often update my daily life, I shall make an exception today.

I spent half day shopping for gifts for my cousins, mum and dear. When I look back at the different gifts, I notice the significant difference among them and the deeper meaning behind that.

--I bought 3 watches for my 3 cousins, cool and cheap, cost me $24 in total.

--I bought 2 bottles of GNC products for my mum, good for hair, skin and nails, cost me $64; I also bought 5 pens which both my mum and I like, cost me $10. 

--I bought 1 D____ ____E for my dear xiao hui, unique and beautiful, cost me ____ in total. (remains a surprise to her)

--For the watches, I looked for cool yet cheap ones, bargained and bought them. 15mins spent.

--For the pens, I looked for the particular ones my mum likes, then spent time sourcing for the best price and traveled a long journey to get them.  2hrs spent including the traveling time.

--For the health products, I bought the one of good quality and relatively higher price which I am familiar with. A quick buy with no bargain, 10mins spent. 

--For my dear's gift, I traveled half the Singapore, to 3 different places, went in and out from nearly 20 shops, talked until I drank off two bottles of water. I didn't care about the price, spent half day seeking, and finally happily found the unique gift for dear.

This choosing of gifts clearly illustrates how I express love to different loved ones in my life. 

My cousins are my younger brothers, I always wish to give them something cool, yet within a budget.

My mum has given everything to bring me up, with unconditional love, thus I will do everything to make her happy, love her unconditionally too. 

My dear is my most beloved one and the most important person in the rest of my life. She is the priceless treasure from God, and I will always give everything to love her, to let her know, she is the unique and only one to me.

I'm glad I managed to get everything I wanted today. Thank God for that.
Dear, I'm sure you will love my gift, for it's unique and beautiful, just like you! And that, comes from my love. Dear, I love you!

Asia Conference Day5

A very good AC final day with Ps. A.R Bernard's extraordinary session. His sharing of 'Gaining back the true self' was revelatory, phenomenal. But before the phenomenal sharing of words, there came the most amazing and touching moment of the entire AC, and I would never forget that amazing moment -- he declared his true love for his wife to the whole world, and, he kissed her in front of everyone. Amazing, I was amazingly touched, not because of how sincere or romantic Ps. Bernard was, but because I know in my heart this is exactly what I am going to do in some decades time. Coincidentally or maybe not, one day before, I just said the same thing to my dear xiao hui, "one day when we are both old, 70s or 80s, I will speak out in my church, telling everyone, 'This is my dearest wife, whom I have loved with all my heart for 60 years, and still, I am loving her deeply in my heart everyday! I love you, xiao hui!'"

Yes, I love you, xiao hui! This is my dream and desire, I will ask God to lead us, and I know He be well pleased seeing that dream come true. Dear, this is my dream, together with you.

Asia Conference Day4

My dear was coughing badly with severe sore throat, a resting day was definitely good for her thus I went to her house early in the morning to spend the whole day with her, resting and looking after my most important xiao hui. Every time I went to see dear in the early morning, it's really early that I always happily catch the first bus, still, I wish I could fly to her every time. Well, traveling time will no longer be a problem once I marry my dear, as our distance will be 0m and I definitely prefer close-ness though it is well known that 'distance brings about beauty'.

Every single second of us staying together is like in heaven, where honey and milk flow everywhere. Better than that, honey is flowing in the air, every breath, every moment, is, SWEET!

Oh it is so sweet that I have to stop here, to prevent sugar diabetes or hyperglycemia.

Asia Conference Day3

A sharing from Ps. Kong about the importance of youth in God's kingdom, not that revelatory but still a good point worthy to be put down here.

Note taken down from Ps. Kong's preaching:

For young people, we got to,

#1. Be present

#2. Be consistent

#3. Be patient

#4. Be accepting

I shall say, at the age of 23, I am now in a very interesting situation that, from time to time I am considered no longer a 'young person', yet still a 'young person' in certain cases. And I hold the responsibility to position myself well under such condition, stay away from childishness but always treasure humility.